Life Like Traveller

From kids to growing young than being adult is like a travel story. Now I can’t write about old age because I haven’t experienced it. From so much mess to finally on destiny still some of us are not on track till now. Eventually we are connecting dots and playing our role correctly either its tangled, chaotic or plain sailing. It’s just we are going on with new situations and conditions due to which we are learning, healing and growing.

Let’s start our journey as a kids. We were cute, weird and dangerous at same time. We feel so happy when we are in our moms lap and she used to roam around us all day long. Our only job was to make trouble for everyone. As kids we only need 5 Rs. to buy toffees, ice creams and cold drinks a way toward happiness. Childhood will remain Golden days of life. Children always wanted to grow as an adult and live life on their own norms. But once you entered into teenage followed by adulthood you get to know harsh reality. The most important thing as an innocent kid was we believe in ourselves more than anyone else. Our big dream to become doctor, surgeon, pilot, teacher, policeman etc seems real. Little eyes big dreams those days were always remain best days forever. Journey of ‘BACHPAN’ was so easy and soothing that now everyone wants to live it one more time.

Moving towards teenage -- Once you have entered, it becomes so beautiful That you start loving yourself. That attraction toward opposite sex, first crush, first rush of hormones, physical changes blah blah…….world seems like different. Parents start taking our little bit of stupid opinion. We start feeling love, sadness, happiness, jealousy, affection, angry, aggressiveness.  You start thinking by your own but still teenager life is more sorted than adulthood because you are still innocent and gentle. Teenage is more confusing age of all - you don’t know the goals, you don’t know if she/he will say yes or no, you don’t know how to dress. In this time school days are most memorable one those annual functions, prayers,  bunks, sports days, project presentation, half yearly exams, final exam, Parent Teacher meeting,  cheating. Cheating ; word is still so intact from school time because we all had done it in different manner & in weirdest style. I always got caught by teacher when helping others while cheating I remember when I was in 11^th standard teacher caught me and torn my copy that was too horrible and have to write it again that too in 15 minutes. Those were the days when we use to scare from principals, floor incharge. So much of gossips, Fights, friendships, sharing lunch, violating rules, standing outside the class for not doing home work, pass for going outside the class. Different kind of silly things gone through school days are adorable part of life journey. School friends, teacher and fun were never going to fade in deep abyss heart.

Then comes college life, free from all restriction – no prayers, no school dress, no compulsory classes, no Parent Teacher meetings. On this stage of life you start leaning more than just "studies". Life lessons are taught through good and bad experiences in this phase of life. There are certain layers for which you start thinking such as Love, Job, Parents, friends, and my favorite exploring new places, travelling to know more about one place and ourselves. College is not just meant for studying, it have much more then you think like fest, sports days, freshers, Dhandiya, Christmas, farewells, Diwali celebration etc. 

By the time you become more sensible and mature to handle different situation. Within college time you make so much of memories you haven’t realized it, till it ends like learning all chapters one night before exam, doing assignment by copying, creating nuisance in classes. College is all about making memories, sharing, doing weird things, those non sense talks with friends, who will pay in canteen bills kind of treasure which have been lost by the time. When college ends you feel like you never want to get out of "so called cage." You become too habitual of doing things according to your college authorities. Last days of last year are like pressure cooker you don’t know where to go, what to do with your life, where it will lead you. We just do one thing properly i.e. handling our close one better than your own situations. You make them strong as never before and make sure that they never feel alone. Talk to them for hours, facing difficult situation, making tough decisions all together as never before. A college family which makes you feels invincible. Through my college journey I can say “You are always going to miss your college days as it ends”

As time passes you go through so much in different situation, different circumstances through different relation all these problems seems like its going to end our life but at last we sort out problems by finding solutions anyhow. We are the one who survived as human being. Life always follows the path which makes you closer to your destinations (it doesn’t work according to you). Your path makes you experience the worse and the best for lives.

BE ALIVE BE HAPPY BE KIND